tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2677339875759596350.post1998200550786084302..comments2020-03-02T22:23:09.336-08:00Comments on My Heart Speaks...: I am not a feminist, but...(Post1)Prathimahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16292232929801598492noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2677339875759596350.post-27140481580905279372011-04-26T10:16:14.058-07:002011-04-26T10:16:14.058-07:00@Haresh- If it was so simple, there was no need fo...@Haresh- If it was so simple, there was no need for "asking" for the right. In a relationship, there needs to be common decisions than forcing our rights. This applies to both Men and women.Prathimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16292232929801598492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2677339875759596350.post-82280929381762386822011-04-25T21:18:31.367-07:002011-04-25T21:18:31.367-07:00IHM, I agree. Because of your blog, I started ques...IHM, I agree. Because of your blog, I started questioning few things which I always ignored/did not notice.Prathimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16292232929801598492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2677339875759596350.post-6284478358680674232011-04-21T09:57:10.639-07:002011-04-21T09:57:10.639-07:00Why to give in to pressure when asking for what is...Why to give in to pressure when asking for what is our right? (Do I sound too naive?) :-)Hareshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09208883750752229423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2677339875759596350.post-27426285280893958462011-04-21T09:31:15.466-07:002011-04-21T09:31:15.466-07:00I think acknowledging it is unfair is the first st...I think acknowledging it is unfair is the first step. <br /><br />Sometimes people wonder what the point of writing about these issues is, one point is when we discuss we realise there are others who feel the same way and ours isn't a one odd isolated case. It's a society's mindset.<br /><br />So it really is like Consciousness Raising.Indian Home Makerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10649133480442907582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2677339875759596350.post-91283597289190632952011-03-29T09:55:26.976-07:002011-03-29T09:55:26.976-07:00@RP, I agree things are different for men and wome...@RP, I agree things are different for men and women. But, I wonder why , considering, women are as educated/established as men these days. <br />I think I remember reading in one of your post(long back) that your husband was ready to move to India if your job hunt didn't go well in UK. I am talking about that kind of adjustments in marriage. It should not be always about women supporting men in their career while they quit theirs. (Unless they chose to do so,not forced)Prathimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16292232929801598492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2677339875759596350.post-78301909626619507832011-03-29T08:20:07.681-07:002011-03-29T08:20:07.681-07:00I quit my job when i had to come to the UK, and i ...I quit my job when i had to come to the UK, and i did it just because ...well...because it was silly to expect my husband to make that change. He was earning more than i was, was well established and all that was def there...but ..well..things ARE diff for mena nd women, its best we face that...Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08566262501480000154noreply@blogger.com